UNFACE Journal

Thinking about dating differently.

Ideas about attraction, first impressions, personality and the strange ways we get to know one another.

Why We Judge Attraction Before We Know Someone

We are used to deciding whether someone is attractive before discovering who they are. What happens when we reverse that order?

Take the photograph away and dating becomes a different kind of conversation. You have to discover the person instead of judging the picture.

Intellectual curiosity, humour, values and conversation can create attraction long before a photograph enters the picture.